Daily Tips for Families

Today's Tip for Families

02-15-2023

According to a national survey, teens think their parents aren’t very good listeners.

Here are some ways to listen effectively (and teach your teen by example!):

Pay attention. If your teen wants to talk, give your undivided attention.
Be open to discussion of any subject.
Stay calm. Teens have opinions. You may not always agree. But if you want your teen to talk to you, be prepared to listen without getting upset.
Be courteous. Use the same tone of voice that you would use with your spouse or a coworker.
Avoid making snap judgments. You may not approve of everything your teen thinks or does. But listening to your teen's reasons will help you decide how best to respond.
Disagree in a loving way. After you’ve heard your teen out, you have the responsibility to give your viewpoint. If you disagree, your student will be more likely to listen to your points if you can show love and respect even while challenging, opposing or overruling.
Encourage positive self-worth. Help your teen recognize personal strengths. Encourage your student to take part in after-school activities, which can help teens discover and develop talents.
Hold regular family meetings. Give everyone in the family a chance to speak and to work out problems together.

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Nye County Schools
Pahrump, NV