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Today's Tip for Families

10-29-2022

College Applications Are Your Teen's Responsibility

College applications will be due before you know it. But so far, your teen has done nothing: not started writing the essay, not asked teachers for letters of recommendation, not made a list of school activities. And it's driving you crazy.

At times like these, some parents simply take over. They contact teachers, sometimes even telling them what to write. They draw up their teen's list of activities. Some parents may even write the essays themselves.

But jumping in is the wrong approach. Applying for college is part of the separation process. Teens—not parents—need to take responsibility for their applications. Sure, you can help proofread your teen's essay or at least read it and provide feedback, but the writing is your student's task to complete. Serve as a guide or mentor during this process, not a coworker.

There are things parents can do, however. Work with your teen's counselor. Make an appointment for you, your teen and the counselor to meet. Together, create a list what has to be done, and when it has to be completed. Post the list in a prominent place at home. Have your teen check it regularly so that it's clear what needs to be done when.

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