Daily Tips for Families

Today's Tip for Families

06-11-2022

Don't Argue When Your Decision is Final

Now that your teen is older, you may be able to compromise on many things that were off limits in younger days. Curfews, clothing and after-school jobs may be among them.

But there are other things that are still non-negotiable, such as those that affect safety. When these topics come up, it's best not to argue with your teen. Instead, state your answer and the reasons for it. Then gently announce that the subject is closed.

If your teen continues to argue, say that you understand that you disagree. But as the parent and an adult, you must overrule your teen's opinion. If your teen still won't drop the subject, it's time to walk away and provide time to cool off.

Remember, this tactic is only for those times when you know you won't change your mind. On other occasions, you and your teen may be able to work something out. But when your teen wants something that is dangerous or violates the values in your family, arguing about it is pointless.

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