Today's Tip for Families

03-17-2022

To Lower Peer Pressure, Raise Self-Esteem

Teens with low self-esteem are vulnerable to negative peer pressure. They may do things they ordinarily wouldn't do just to feel liked.

To bolster your teen's self-image:

• Be positive. Offer praise when your teen does something well.
• Avoid comparing your teen to other people. Saying things like, "Your brother did so well in this class. Why can't you?" is more likely to discourage than motivate your student.
• Assign responsibilities. Expect your teen to complete homework, do chores, etc. Meeting these expectations helps your teen feel capable and reliable—and proud.
• Be encouraging. Support activities your student is interested in. These let your teen develop hobbies and strengths, make like-minded friends and build self-confidence.
• Promote independent thinking. If your teen is making a choice, you might say, "You've told me what your friends say, but what do you think?" Or, "What would you decide if everyone took a secret ballot and no one would ever see your vote?"
• Say "I love you" to your teen every day.

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Webster County Schools

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