10-29-2021
Explain That Your Teen Doesn't Have to be Perfect
By the time they’re teens, many kids have internalized a harmful message. They think they have to be good-looking or popular or perfect to be happy.
In trying to be perfect for others, they may suppress their own needs, wants and talents. They may stop pursuing goals and doing well in school.
To protect your teen from unrealistic or harmful expectations:
- Discuss how different types of people are portrayed in TV programs, movies, songs and magazines. Talk about the ways real life differs from TV land, and why generalizing and stereotyping is wrong.
- Introduce your teen to a variety of experiences and activities.
- Encourage healthy risk-taking.
- Don’t rescue your teen. Instead, when mistakes happen, help your teen admit them, learn from them and move on.
- Ask for your teen's opinions.
- Talk with teachers about your teen’s strengths and participation at school.
- Listen carefully to your teen’s questions, gripes and comments about school, peers and home life. If you detect problems, address them.
- Look for ways for your teen to explore career fields of interest.
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