01-02-2023
Try Tips for Better Communication
“You never listen to me.” That’s a complaint heard frequently from both children and their parents. But strong, two-way parent/child communication supports students' confidence and success in school.
Here are some tips that can make that communication a little easier:
- Prepare your child to listen. Get attention by saying your child's name, or placing a gentle hand on a shoulder.
- Speak in a quiet voice. When it seems your child isn’t listening, your natural reaction may be to yell. (It never works.) Instead, try speaking in a whisper. Your child will hang on every word.
- Use a courteous tone of voice. Talk to your child as you would to a friend. Your student will be more likely to use a courteous tone with you.
- Catch your child being good. Offer praise for cooperating with you or other family members.
- Show your love for your child. Children are never too old to be told they are loved. Saying “I love you” is important. Writing it in a note is also great—it gives your child something to hold on to.
- Give your undivided attention when your child wants to talk with you. Save reading, looking at your phone, falling asleep or making yourself busy with tasks for another time.
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Nye County Schools
Pahrump, NV
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