Daily Tips for Families

Today's Tip for Families

04-27-2022

Competition Can Teach Valuable Skills

Some children avoid competition. They're uncomfortable being compared to others. But competition can help children learn to handle conflict and work cooperatively. Kids can learn to overcome challenges and experience success. These skills also help students succeed in school.

To help your child get the most out of participation in games, sports, recitals, debates or other competitive activities:

Point out the rewards. Your child will gain confidence from practicing and testing new skills. There will probably be chances to make new friends and be part of a group.
Let your child choose among several competitive activities. Make it clear you expect your student to stick with the choice for a few months. If it isn't a good fit, your child can then try something else.
Make sure the coach or instructor's style is right for your child. Intimidation and humiliation don't help. Steer your child toward activities that help kids develop a positive self-image.
Be a good sport yourself. Don't get overly excited about a foul ball, a missed note or a referee's call. You'll make the competition unpleasant for your child.
Praise your child's effort—no matter the outcome of the competition or game. Say that by working hard, your child will continue to learn and improve.

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