Daily Tips for Families

Today's Tip for Families

01-24-2022

Even the most capable children sometimes complain, "I don't get this," or "I'll never get this! I'm stupid!"

If parents let this self-criticism go on, children can come to believe that since they can't do well, there's no point in trying.

To address self-criticism:

Focus on your child's strengths. Don't emphasize failures.
Talk about how your student improved—not about mistakes or forgotten material.
Challenge negative talk. Remind your child of past successes.
Put setbacks into perspective. "Yes, you got a bad grade. But you can learn from this and do better next time. Let's talk about things that might help."
Avoid comparing your child to siblings or anyone else.
Be a booster. Never say, "Stop complaining and get to work." Acknowledge that the work might be hard. But note that your child has done hard work before and triumphed.
Show interest in what your child is learning. Ask to see the work.
Listen attentively to what your student says about schoolwork without judging or arguing. If you have a concern, share it with the teacher.

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