Today's Tip for Families

10-26-2021

Learning is the Best Reward

Children whose accomplishments are smothered in rewards such as candy, money and excessive praise often feel they are only successful if they receive these external rewards. They usually concentrate more on the reward than the accomplishment.

Research shows that successful learners are “intrinsically” motivated—stimulated more by their own curiosity than by any reward or bonus. They are rewarded for their successes with their own satisfaction.

To promote intrinsic motivation:

• Allow your child reasonable independence and creativity in his play. When your child has freedom in play, it allows him to see the effects of his actions. When he creates something, he has something tangible that represents his efforts.
• Provide learning challenges that strengthen feelings of success. For example, if your child has just successfully learned a part of the multiplication table, challenge him to move on to the next part.
• Ask your child to evaluate his own efforts. Ask, “How do you feel about this paper you just wrote? Are you proud of your effort?”
• Avoid excessive rewards and praise. Instead, comment on your child’s effort and persistence more than on his results. For example, “You have stuck with your math homework for almost an hour. I am really impressed with your diligence.”

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